Why I dont miss my iphone anymore

1) I can throw my nokia against the wall.
2) I charge it once in 5 days
3) I dont panic when I think I've lost it ( 4 times a week)
5) Its fallen down and cracked to 3 pieces around twice a week thus far, and I've always managed to put it back
6) It fell into water, and survived (me, nokias and water have a strange history)
7) I am always pleasantly surprised when I check my mail after 6 hour intervals these days. It never feels like I never get any new mail because I always read my mail as soon as I received it.
8) Same for FB.
9) It has a flashlight - for all those who are scared of the dark, this is invaluable!
10) I can name profiles again - something I always loved doing!!

Welcome to my world, spirit and spunk!

one loss, two loss, big loss, small loss

I am in the middle of some (sigh) drafting, but I had to stop to ask:

Does a big loss make the loss of a smaller loss more bearable such that nothing that is a small loss can ever compare to the loss of a big loss and hence all small losses are little reminders of how lucky you are, or does the big loss associated with the er, big loss, always taint the losses of the small loss, such that all the small losses are nothing but little extensions and supplements of the big loss and all big losses are just uppped versions?
It is dark and there is snow swirling around outside the window. And I have reams to read before I sleep.
If theres anyone here, do you have an answer?

(Except you P, go away, I hate you if you're on hibernation)